Friday, July 10, 2009

Counting the days

Thirteen days and counting until the custody hearing. I am anxious, nervous, excited, hopeful, scared, you name it the emotions are racing through my veins.

At least I will see my son for the next two weeks. He is coming tonight and will be with me when we go to court. My daughter whom I haven't seen since January will not be coming again. Another violation of the court order - over 150 violations of the order and counting. We will see what the judge does with this. I am not too hopeful he will do much. As we Dads know, we are quickly held in contempt for the slightest thing, the mothers can violate the order at will with no consequenses. We will see if it holds true. I am hopeful the Judge will see the disregard for the authority of the court and at least do something. The children need to see that you cannot disregard the court and there be no consequences.

That being said; it is my prayer that the Judge will see the situation for what it is, and allow me to gain custody of my children. Your prayers are coveted.

I will probably not write on here until the hearing is over - But I will say for all the Dad's out there who are in a similar situation, remember to keep the faith and realize that win or loose, you are doing the right thing.

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